at the kitchen table: on ghosts and rituals

at the kitchen table: on ghosts and rituals

The holidays around the change from summer to fall are rife with ancestor worship, death, and touching the spirit-world. Samhain. Halloween. All Souls’ Day. Dìa de los Muertos. Something about the end of October conjures the thinness of the veil between the land of the living and the land of the dead. This month, Glow's regular contributors meet up at the Kitchen Table to chat about how we invite the dead into our homes, places of worship, and communities. Do we show lost loved ones a good time, with feasting, sweets, games, and offerings? How do we prepare for visits from the unloved as well—the restless, unhappy, malevolent spirits who might pop by to instill fear, extract revenge, or just toilet paper our lawns?

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at the kitchen table: grappling with god(s)

at the kitchen table: grappling with god(s)

To say that Glow's regular contributors have mixed feelings on the notion of a supreme being is an understatement. For this Kitchen Table discussion, we consider post-loss faith. Do you err on the side of Pascal's Wager, and live as though there might be some greater spirit of good and enlightenment out there? Or do you have a structure, a community, or ritual devoted to a sky-borne entity? Do you talk to a single God, to many gods, to Mother Nature, or to yourself?

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