We are honored today to have a guest post from Robyn, Owen's mummy, of The Heart Sees Clearly. She writes: "I present to you my new definition of strength, as it applies to my grieving heart: The ability to carry on one minute and allow yourself to fall apart the next. The willingness to make yourself vulnerable, to be honest with your emotions, to cry and scream when you need to. The capacity to feel joy without guilt. The selfless act of taking on the suffering so your child does not have to. The power to let go, when all you want to do is hold on, when all you want is one more cuddle. To live, knowing your child will always be with you in your heart."